Ang's DIY Workshop~ Project Wedding

Ever since I made the bridesmaid cards for my gal friends my creative juices have been kicking in...I've gotten more and more creative with the deco. and details for the wedding. After all it's all in the details right? To jog your memories of my bridesmaid cards here are some pics. I did not get to put up...remember these guys or um gals....huge success~

The first set of paper dolls that I made

This was the ladies 'hair' day~

I love being creative and coming up with new ideas for our wedding. The finished products give me so much gratification! I enjoy making our wedding so very personal with these details. Since I'm doing all the deocrations, props and design work myself, our day will be very 'us' and not a cookie cutter wedding.  Also it's a good way to bring down the cost which we can spend on more important proirities like having a sit down meal and a band which is important to us. Now flowers...that's a whole different story...we're definitely hiring a florist for that, as anyone who knows me knows I have a 'black' thumb..yup I kill plants and can't even name most flowers. 

So to accommodate my new found DIY projects and experiments some changes needed to be made to give me some creative space, hence out goes Barry (my trusty Nissan Maxxima) from our garage and in comes the start of Ang's DIY Workshop :)

I'm not going to show you the finished products here since I'd like you to see them on the day of our wedding, but I'd love to show you some of the process. So with my big sis Anu in town to help with wedding details this past week and my baby gal niece Neharika in tow, I decide to combine entertaining my 3-yr old niece and get Anu to help me with one of my first projects.

While N'ika made herself busy painting her bumble bee which she named Floppy, Anu and I proceed to paint his and her mugs, in my wedding colors, with Mr.Tobias and Mrs.Tobias painted on it :) Not only is it a gift for Scott but will also serve as props for the dessert table at the wedding. So here are the mugs before they were 'baked'. Therefore this picture does not do them justice as this is pre-baking without the shiny and brilliant juicy colors as they look after they came out the oven.

Pre-baked His & Her Mugs

Another project was picking up old discarded large frames from garage/estate sales to re-purpose them into chalk boards, softboards or canvas for the wedding.

For example to make these canvases below, I bought some fabric that I liked and with a staple gun just stapled it to the frame. Now what I'm going to do with these items you'll find out at our wedding. No fun if I give away all the wedding details now is it?

Here is my vision for the center pieces for the dinner tables...each table will have a grouping of silver vases of different shapes and sizes with a monochrome bouquet of flowers in each one. To get these vases and turn them into what I'm looking for I recruited my fiance Scott and we went 'picking' to find these glass vases, cup, bowls of different sizes, heights. Picking: meaning, To find treasures while garage or estate sale-ing...cheap!

So late at night (after little N'ika was tucked in bed all snug) Anu and I started getting these glass vases ready for our wedding...by spray painting them silver. Here we are creating our art, Anu in her PJ's and me in my grunge jeans.

And lastly let me end today's blog post on an adorable note with this picture that I drew and put in a rustic frame for our wedding...just say it with me...aww!

Dressing our cupid for our wedding- our boy Coley

Scott and I met through our dogs. I had two loves of my life at the time, Bobo and Atticus, and when I first met Scott I had just lost my precious Bobo. My sole purpose was to push through my grief and focus on keeping Atticus happy. Atticus and Bobo spent their entire lives together, and I did not want Atticus to die of loneliness. So he and I went everywhere together. That's how Scott first met Atticus.

My bratty Bobo and delicate darling Atticus

 
Scott and I played on a co-ed softball team together. The day I noticed Scott was one Sunday during our practice session, I was out on the field and I could see Scott standing over a drooling Atticus in the dugout. Scott was eating a big over stuffed burrito and was feeding Atticus bits...it was adorable. Of course Scott proceeded to put on his baseball glove in one hand and with the burrito in the other played catch in the outfield next to me. I nicknamed him Jughead (the character from the Archie comics) after that.

I was constantly looking to set up doggie play dates for Atticus. That's when Scott & I started emailing back and forth...when he told me about his dog Coley.

Coley

Coley was labeled the 'Invisible dog' by me and my friends for a while, because as it turned out he was Scott's sister Mandee's dog, and lived in Pennsylvania...LOL. So Scott said he would hang out with me & Atti on our 'playdate'...and he did!  He became best buds with me and Atti, we went hiking, to parks, swimming in lakes & rivers and had outdoor picnics together. Scott & I had just started dating when I lost Atticus to cancer. He was 10 years old. Losing him brought me to my knees, and I finally let myself grieve. I had no one left to be strong for anymore. Scott was by my side everyday.

Six months after we were dating Coley come to live with us. Just when I thought I would never love another dog again....he had my heart at first lick. So Coley, the 'invisible dog' who started my conversations with Scott, who along with Atticus was our cupid, became our family.

For our big day we want our 'cupid' to walk down the aisle, and stand by our side, as we make our vows to each other under the old Oak tree. How do we dress someone who is so near and dear to our heart?

Please helps us by voting on the look you like best for Coley and we'll consider dressing him so....

Matching collar & leash maybe?

Flowers possibly?...nah...he's not a girl.

Maybe a bow tie?...but the groomsmen are going to be in ties.

So maybe a tie then? 

Give him ring bearer duties?

Keep it simple

Or a tux perhaps?.....

Or to just keep it real...au natural! Coz'  that's our boy after all.....handsome just as he is..maybe with a ball or stick in his mouth ;)

A species so intimately involved with our own, which has shared our life since time immemorial ~ Alfred Barbou

A Possible Pippa Moment....

I asked my older sis Anu to be my Maid of Honor at our wedding. For those of you who don't know Anu, she's approximately 2 years older than me. She's a mother of a rambunctious, born-on-my-birthday spitfire tomboy, who's super smart and a one-of-a-kind 2-year old...my favorite and ONLY niece Neharika. Anu's also my first phone call, my biggest supporter, my best friend and my confidant. Did I mention she's also H-O-T....hot! I use her as my inspiration to look better after I push out an 8-pound human being, than before I bore children.

I work out...about 2-3 times a week...and get my butt whooped by Scott at the gym. I've been eating healthier than I ever have, all to ensure I feel 100% beautiful on my wedding day...and all I can think about is my Maid of Honor Anu as she stands by my side....that she is going to do a "Pippa" on me!! LOL

So if you are invited to our wedding as one of our close family or friends, be kind and try to peel your eyes away from "Pippa" and give the bride some love~ <3

Anu (a.k.a Pippa) with my BIL Vignesh and baby gal Neharika

All about my Girls

Asking my closest girlfriends and sisters (who are also my best friends) to stand by my side while I marry my sweetheart is a big deal! They mean the world to me and have always been there for me. We can talk after years (which we have not gone as yet)....months maybe...and we can pick up right where we left off. We all live in different states, different countries, across miles and oceans but our bond is strong. We all grew up together and were and are still such a huge part of each others lives.

So I wanted to ask them to stand by my side, as I marry my sweetheart Scott, in a very special way. I saw these DIY Bridesmaid cards and decided that is so 'me'. To make something handmade and creative, made with love!

Growing up I always did creative hand made stuff for my friends and family. Hand made cards, funny poems, scrapbooks. This would come from my heart, so I set out to make these adorable cards for my girls....I hope they love them as much as I enjoyed making them. It was worth all the hand blisters (literally) the hours spent after work to make these card. This one goes out to you all...my Maid of Honor Anu, Bridesmaids Sagari, Natasha, Kirti, Dirga and Neha.

Bridesmaid Cards all ready to be mailed out to the US, Canada & India!

Each girl got the paper dolls that represent each one of them

The Bridesmaid card!



My gals are ready...



Close up of the finished cards...

The final product before I put them in envelopes

Adventures in Wedding Planning

So if you think planning a wedding is hard...think about planning two! My fiancé and I are getting married twice this year. I'm marrying my sweetheart/best friend and partner-in-crime, Scott. He's American and so am I, BUT here's the twist to my life. I was born in the USA but lived the majority of my life in India. So I'm Indian with Indian parents, but by virtue of being born in Madison WI I'm a US citizen who lived in India on a visa till I was 25, that's when I decided to come to the US to study, live and work.

So back to our wedding plans, we are having an American wedding in Madison, GA on Oct. 13th, 2012 and an Indian wedding in Coorg, India, date is a TBD in Dec. 2012. I decided to blog about my wedding planning and the journey to our big day because this is all so new and exciting to me. I love to share the details, the hunt for deco, the hard work, dress shopping, the scheduling, florist, caterers, the cake and oh-so much more that goes into this leading up to our big day (s).

Location, Location, Location


So my first blog post I wanted to share the first big decision that was made for our US wedding- the location!

We knew we wanted an outdoor wedding- we wanted the ceremony site to be surrounded by just trees and sky. We wanted the reception under a big white tent with dancing under the stars. With this shared vision we started our hunt. We came close to choosing 'The Hill' in Athens GA and it had everything that we wanted, except the ceremony site which was a sunken garden. I could not envision myself getting married in front of a wall! We did however love their food and are going with them for catering our wedding reception. Moving on...

Enter my second obsession- getting married under a big old grand Oak tree!

 ~Come meet me under the oak tree
You will be able to find me there
Smelling of jasmine flowers 
As I have weaved them through my hair~

Which lead us to the charming FarmHouse Inn in Madison GA. First of all please note the irony, born in Madison WI and will marry in Madison GA. I thought it was a sign! The ceremony site was perfect....under this big grand Oak tree (pictured here in winter....this will have a  big leafy effect in October for the wedding). 

We were so drawn to this place as it had everything we wanted, the dance floor under the stars, charming B&B with rooms for our entire wedding party and families to stay so we can make it a whole wedding party weekend. I love, love, love the symbolism of getting married under the grand Oak tree. My vision is to hang lanterns off the branches for the ceremony. I can't wait! Excitement creeps in in the middle of the schedules, vendor calls, bridal gown shopping, 'picking' at flea markets for wedding deco (a post for another day) and all the DIY things I plan to do and more. Stay tuned!